fix(build.ts/startWatching): add option awaitWriteFinish with 250ms threshold

This makes it so that the events are not fired until the file have stabilized.
This also changes the order of the fired events.
A move / rename now results in `delete` then `add` rather than the other way around.

From `chokidar` README - https://github.com/paulmillr/chokidar?tab=readme-ov-file#performance:
```
awaitWriteFinish.stabilityThreshold (default: 2000). Amount of time in milliseconds for a file size to remain constant before emitting its event.
```

Fixes #2232

quartz/build.ts

@@ -143,6 +143,7 @@ async function startWatching(
   }
 
   const watcher = chokidar.watch(".", {
+    awaitWriteFinish: { stabilityThreshold: 250 },
     persistent: true,
     cwd: argv.directory,
     ignoreInitial: true,